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Brad's avatar

This is just the tonic, thanks.

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Sara Eckel's avatar

Thank you!

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Nicholas Holt's avatar

Spot on. Don’t make good or bad. Just it down!

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Sara Eckel's avatar

Thank you.

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Barbara's avatar

Thanks! Excellent reminder to be present.

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Sara Eckel's avatar

Thanks, Barbara!

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Felicity Spector's avatar

Thank you for this! I’ve worked as a TV news writer and producer since 1989 - so literally I live inside the news, all day every day for 36 years. But I’ve also found volunteering (and baking! Sometimes both together!) has helped channel anger or helplessness into doing something useful for someone else, which seems a more positive outcome! Also I focus on Ukraine and spend my emotional energy there. You can’t do everything, everywhere, all at once.

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Sara Eckel's avatar

So smart to find something to focus on. Still figuring mine out!

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Felicity Spector's avatar

I’m 57 so it took a while… but we got there in the end!

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Meredith Charpantier's avatar

Great advice. Thank you

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Sara Eckel's avatar

Glad you liked it!

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Lois T's avatar

Thanks for these tips/ reminders. They’re more important each passing day.

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Sara Eckel's avatar

That you! I have to keep remembering them myself!

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Lois T's avatar

One day/moment I’m fine and think I will continue to be…and reassuring others to be the same…the next, I’m thrown off course and balance, and reaching for a meditation app, or trying to practice breathing techniques for the first time in my life! Or something very like. :). In large part I started my new “Campfire Stories of Resistance & Resilience” tool, to do something proactive and positive, and remind myself (and others) of things that others of have done, to demonstrate resilience and help others, in times demonstrably darker than those we yet face….

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Ros Barber's avatar

Perfect sanity, neatly packaged.

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Sara Eckel's avatar

Thank you!

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MKG's avatar

Excellent closing words...

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Sara Eckel's avatar

Thank you!

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Cynthia Lee's avatar

Yes, I needed to read that. Thank you!

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Sara Eckel's avatar

So glad! Thanks for telling me!

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Sacha Cohen's avatar

I feel exactly the same way!

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Jane Cornell-Cooley's avatar

Thank you. Your thinking is a direct invitation to pursue a healthy direction.

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Sara Eckel's avatar

Thanks, Jane!

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Jane Dickerson's avatar

Thank you, Sara! This is wonderful, wise, and the perfect recipe for sanity in an age of despair. I believe this is a sort of quiet rebellion, and like a theatre emptying after the show is over… one by one, until there are none. It will be noticed, eventually, that the audience is gone.

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Sara Eckel's avatar

Thanks, Jane. I've heard that the cable channels that perpetuate this stuff aren't doing well. It's tricky because I do want to be informed, but they were never doing that in the first place.

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David O'Fallon's avatar

Thoughtful-helpful. Thank you Sarah. I post called North of 80. https://open.substack.com/pub/davidofallon. Because i am. Much congruence with you. Being north of 80 challenge my perspective—(how my weeks left—400-500?—at best—and affirms my determination not to live inside the creepy news but to be part of creating, courageous imagining, what we must still create. the America that never was—but must be. Please—take a look. https://open.substack.com/pub/davidofallon

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Sara Eckel's avatar

What a great perspective!

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Holly Starley's avatar

So many good points here, Sara. Not practicing being miserable (that can be tricky for us humans, eh) and picking your sources of information wisely are so important. Thank you for sharing.

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Sara Eckel's avatar

Thank you, Holly! I'm so glad you found the piece helpful!

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McExpat's avatar

We have the luxury to live in the news and that is a curse. Our material comfort and ease of survival has left a gaping hole in our brains to obsess about politics. I want less, much, much less politics. Stop social engineering and just keep the streets safe and clean and stop overreaching on every single thing. I want the governing to get small and leave me alone.

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Sara Eckel's avatar

Personally, I like a government that does its job and serves people, but thanks for sharing your POV.

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Lois T's avatar

I agree with you, but I understand the communicated position, too.

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BitsyBelle's avatar

Beautifully written and insightful essay. I’m so grateful I discovered you.

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Sara Eckel's avatar

Thank you!!

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